God is calling you deeper — what’s unlocked in you impacts everyone connected to you.
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Reset the Mind. Refocus the Heart. Rise to the Call.
~Why This Matters~
Have you been feeling weighed down, disconnected, or unsure of your purpose?
Life gets heavy. Responsibilities stack up. Expectations tighten — at work, at home, in your community, and even in church. You keep showing up, doing what’s required, carrying what’s expected… but somewhere along the way, clarity fades. Your heart feels distant. Your connection with God starts to slip.
And most days, you don’t have the language to explain it — you just know something’s off.
If that’s you, you’re not weak. You’re not failing. And you’re not alone.
What often looks like burnout or frustration is actually a man standing at a door God is ready to open — but the work required isn’t more effort, it’s deeper healing. When the foundation is cracked, the weight of life gets heavier. And when the foundation is healed, things begin to unlock — not just internally, but relationally, spiritually, and generationally. This isn’t JUST about fixing yourself.
It’s about allowing God to unlock what’s been stuck — so what flows from your life changes for everyone connected to you.
The "unlocking" process isn’t about becoming someone new.
It’s about returning to who God designed you to be — without the weight, the noise, or the pressure to perform.
When things begin to unlock, it looks like this:
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Clarity replaces confusion.
You stop second-guessing every decision and begin moving with purpose and peace. -
Emotional weight starts to lift.
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Your relationship with God becomes real again.
Not rushed. Not forced. Just honest, grounded, and aligned. -
Your responses change.
Less reacting. More discernment. Better boundaries. Healthier conversations. -
Your relationships improve.
At home. At work. In community. Not because you’re trying harder — but because you’re becoming whole. -
Leadership flows naturally.
Not from position or title, but from presence, integrity, and example.
Unlocking is subtle, but powerful. And once it begins, it doesn’t stop with you.
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If you’re tired of surface-level fixes and ready to heal at the root, you’re in the right place.
Who This is For
This space is for men 40+ who:
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Carry responsibility in their family, work, church, or community — with or without a title
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Feel spiritually disconnected, emotionally worn down, or quietly frustrated
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Know there’s more on their life but can’t quite name what’s missing
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Want to lead better in their relationships, not just manage them
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Are ready to slow down, go deeper, and do the internal work that creates lasting change
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Desire a closer, more honest walk with God — without performance or pressure
How the Journey Works
This isn’t a program you rush through.
It’s a guided journey that meets you where you are and walks with you toward clarity, healing, and alignment.
Here’s what the journey emphasizes:
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Reset the Mind
Identifying and dismantling thought patterns, beliefs, and narratives that keep you stuck. -
Refocus the Heart
Addressing emotional weight, unhealed wounds, misplaced identity, and spiritual drift. -
Rise to the Call
Learning how to move forward with discernment, healthy boundaries, and purpose — allowing leadership to flow from wholeness, not pressure.
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The work is intentional, reflective, and faith-centered — creating space for God to unlock what’s been dormant so your life begins to bear healthier fruit.
This is work I’m deeply familiar with — because it’s the same work God has done, and continues to do, in me.
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Hey there! I’m Koko — The Purpose Accelerator.
I help men heal at the foundation so their relationships, leadership, and legacy can change. My work is rooted in faith, lived experience, and the belief that transformation happens when men slow down, go deeper, and allow God to do the work only He can do.
This isn’t about fixing men.
It’s about walking with them as God restores what’s been hidden, wounded, or overlooked.
​So allow me to bridge the gap between where you are and where you want to be - reconnected with God, Your Father, Your Creator!
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There's yet so much more for you to see, learn, and experience - but FIRST let's reset and refocus, so you can rise the RIGHT way - God's way!
If you’re here, you’re ready for more than awareness.
If you’ve arrived on this page, chances are something has already been stirred—through a reflection, a question, or a moment of recognition that you can’t ignore anymore.
This site exists for those who are ready to respond, not just reflect.
You don’t need to revisit what brought you here.
You need to know what comes next.
THE PATH FORWARD: REFOCUS & RISE
two paths | one intentional journey
Coaching/Development Path
Discipleship Path
Where men meet God again for inner healing and restoration. Where intentional growth begins. Refocus is the entry point to the work.
This stage is designed for those ready to move from recognition to realignment—to engage with structure, guidance, and faith-centered development.
Here you’ll find:
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Guided devotionals
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The BAiP Foundational Reset
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Jeremiah Mandate Coaching
Where men build what God restored.
For those called deeper, RISE is the discipleship pathway—formed, protected, and relational.
This is where Beyond the Cloth lives.
Access is available only to those who have completed:
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Dinner with the 12
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BAiP Foundational Reset
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Jeremiah Mandate Coaching
"DINNER WITH THE 12"
In 2019, I was blessed to host a dinner acknowledging 12 men for their work in the community. While the event was a success and blessing, I knew and felt it was to be more than an award ceremony. I'm looking forward to bringing this back soon as a transformational table experience for men ready to reclaim peace, power & purpose. To be considered for this exclusive opportunity, click the button below.
